You are worried sick. You are finding it hard to eat. You cannot sleep properly........you can't stop thinking, wondering if your wife is having an emotional affair. Along with worrying about how far it has gone, whether you can get her back, probably one of the questions Eharmony.com review you keep returning to is...
Why?
Why do women have emotional
affairs? Why is emotional infidelity such a problem? First of all, one of the
reasons is there is much more scope for having emotional affairs. Women go to
work outside the home now more than ever. So they meet different people,
different men, and have to spend lots of time with them. They may have to work
together closely on projects. Many companies encourage their teams to socialize
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together too.
But none of these mean for sure she
is having an emotional affair or even thinking about it. Sometimes these
affairs just start because she has someone, that is not you, that she can share
problems with. It is a short leap from a work problem to a home problem.
If your wife is spending twelve
hours per day with someone else, and he is attentive, there for her when she
wants to talk, sympathizes with her problems, then she is likely to form some
sort of attachment to him.
Remember Don Juan? Casanova? These
guys always work on listening to the women and bonding with them emotionally LetmeDate.com to get them ultimately into bed. They gave her all
the attention she needed.
Go back in your mind to when you
first started dating - when nothing was too much trouble, when you talked and
talked. Communication was great, just hanging out with her and making her laugh
was fantastic. You can get back to that stage, no matter what has happened
before. You just need a bit of help to do that.
So what can you do?
You can give her the time and
attention she needs. Keep communicating with her. Make sure you listen to her
problems and be sympathetic. Of course, you have to go to work and you can't
spend all your time chasing after her, making sure she is ok. But an occasional
text, to see how she is doing, shows her you are thinking about her.
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